We conserve relationships with ourselves and others through teachings, guidance and acceptance. 

 

Some of our greatest struggles in life are produced by how we perceive events and situations.

Tammie Oram aims to help you learn the necessary tools to navigate your thoughts, feelings and actions in order to achieve your goals.

Find out how she can help you create the life you want by booking a 30 minute free consultation.

Online and phone sessions available.
Please feel free to contact Tammie directly at
250 320-6018

My mission is to provide our clients a safe space to grow and learn as strong, independent individuals; to have loving relationships within themselves and with OTHERS.

 

tammie l. oram

 WARNING!  Working with Tammie Oram could stir up feelings of hope, possibility and even happiness.

From a young age, Tammie observed that happy families come from happy parents.  She holds close to the saying that shit rolls downhill. If the adults in the home are angry, children pick up on that and squabble, and when the kids squabble the dog gets yelled at, and then the dog, having no one below him to retaliate poops on the carpet. 

But when parents feel supported by one another, playful in their relationship, and secure in their partner’s love and consideration, they can bring their family up to that level of contentment and security as well.

Tammie felt the pull to help people in grade eight. While living a chaotic childhood, she knew there had to be a better way to approach navigating intimate relationships.  It’s been Tammie’s mission to equip this generation of adults with tools for healthy communication, effective problem solving, and compassionate empathy for their partners.  She does this with the aspiration that the rising generation won’t have to work as hard because these attributes will be modeled to them early on.

Together for over 36 years to her husband Glen, Tammie truly believes that relationships can be strong, solid, and above all enjoyable.

Because she was feeling restricted by the rules of counselling and wasn’t seeing the results she was hoping for with the clients coming to her practice, Tammie moved to a career in relationship coaching.  This way she is able to provide programs such as Relationship Foundation Program, the Next…Level Up Program and Master Your Relationship Program.

No matter who you are, each phase of life produces unique challenges.  Together, you will explore the past while focusing on the present and the future.  Tammie can help guide you through these thoughts and experiences helping you live your best life.

  • Master Therapeutic Counsellor

  • CEO Tammie Oram, Relationship Coaching

  • CEO Fairwinds Counselling Services

  • Licensed Nutritional Therapist & Pilates Instructor

  • Reiki & Access Bars Practitioner

  • Mother of 3, Grandma of 2

  • Owner of Nourish Wellness Centre in Kamloops

  • Coordinator at Interior Wellness Festival

  • Wellness Team at Inspire Chiropractic & Wellness Studio

  • Past Vice President of a Professional Counselling Association, current Chairperson of several committees

Experience my holistic approach.

 

rELATIONSHIP cOACHING

When you join the Relationship Foundations Program you have the opportunity to turn your marriage into a true partnership.  You could be part of a dynamic duo that is considerate and polite, more willing to help one another, and able to work on joint solutions.

Not only that, but your relationship can also be fun again.  Remember the days when even doing the dishes was fun as long as your partner was by your side?  Relationships Foundations can help you bring back playfulness and laughter.

Possibly the most important outcome of taking part in Relationship Foundations is that conflict is handled without inflicting damage on your partner.

Therapeutic counselling

No matter who you are, each phase of life produces unique challenges. Together, you will explore the past while focusing on the present and the future. Tammie can help guide you through these thoughts and experiences helping you live your best life.

Five Love Languages & 7 Principles for Making a Marriage Work Workshops

Dig deep into how you can express love to your partner in a language they can easily understand and receive. Also learn how you best receive love so you can ask your partner to connect with you in those ways. Develop the 7 Principles (Levels) to solidify and build up your Relationships.

Retreats

Tammie is a super planner when it comes to spectacular retreats for couples and ladies. Check back often to see what’s coming up in Fall 2023!

 

The process of starting to explore your relationship more deeply can be an incredibly exhausting experience. Be kind to yourself in the hours, days, and weeks ahead as you press into these tough spaces. Take a short walk. Drink some water. Have a snack. Breath deeply. Make time for rest.

Attention Couples!

Unlock the Secret to a Thriving Relationship!

Welcome to a turning point in your love life!

If you're here, it's because you crave a deeper connection with your partner. You're tired of the misunderstandings, the silence that stretches too long, and the joy that seems just out of reach. You remember the spark that once lit up your relationship, and you're longing to reignite that flame.

Introducing the "10 Hot Tips to Ignite the Spark in Your Relationship" guide!

Crafted by Tammy Oram, renowned relationship coach, this exclusive guide is your first step towards a relationship filled with laughter, understanding, and security. It's not just about rekindling romance; it's about creating a bond that's strong, fun, and incredibly rewarding.

Here's What You'll Discover:

Instant Connection Techniques: Learn simple, yet powerful ways to instantly feel closer to your partner, even on tough days.


Communication Secrets: Uncover the art of conversation that leads to deeper understanding and eliminates frustrating misunderstandings.


Fun Reimagined: Explore creative activities to bring back the fun in your relationship, making every moment together a delightful adventure.

Romance Rebooted: Get practical tips on how to keep the romance alive, turning ordinary days into extraordinary expressions of love.

Building a Secure Bond: Discover strategies to fortify your relationship, ensuring both you and your partner feel valued, understood, and secure.

Why This Amazing Resource?

Because I know you're exhausted from trying to figure it out on your own. This guide is distilled from years of coaching couples back to a place of love and respect. It's easy to follow, and most importantly, it's practical. You won't find fluff here—just straight-to-the-point advice that works.

Enter your email below to receive your free "10 Hot Tips to Ignite the Spark in Your Relationship" guide. Let's start this journey together towards a relationship that's not just repaired, but truly exhilarating.